Q. I don’t wear shoes inside my house, a custom I feel is both practical (limits crud tracked in) and thoughtful (shows respect for the home). Some of my friends always roll their eyes over my request and comply with exaggerated patience. Is this really such an unreasonable request? – Exasperated

Dear Exasperated: No, it is not unreasonable. Two things you might consider: first, explain that you think of this as a sign of respect for the home, not just some neurotic germ-hating ritual. Second, place a basket of washable, inexpensive slippers and socks by the door for visitors, including a monogrammed pair (the real thing or use a Magic Marker) for each of the worst eye-rollers.

–O!Connor